life is like living a strategy.

while playing Clash of Clans. (COC)

i've realized certain similarities.

1) Change your strategy when the base grows.
its like different stages of your life, or at different point of your life. the needs and wants never match and there's always a gap. being Alive, makes us flexible and the ability to think and achieve what we can.

2) Strategies might suit you but for a while.
situations will change. sometimes with a litte luck, its easy.
sometimes, with zero luck and all you need is to change and adapt accordingly. so that you will not be drained out totally. you will still have the fighting spirits to push you going and going further each time. Not all unchallenged challenges are battle lost.
they are just not worthy of your effort.

3) there's always a loop hole.
one man's meat is another man's poison. You are not perfect, do your best. some ppl will be stronger than you. even when you are at the top. some ppl will take manage to take advantage of your shortfall.
but its okay.
because you are always growing and changing.

4) don't stop growing. (just like a kid growing up)
outgrow yourself mentally. i think this is part of growing up when facing and overcoming challenges. you will realized it just get easier. we started off with minimum guidance and little help or (no help).  we need to depend on ourselves for solutions and seek help if resources are deemed weak. help is not a sign of weakness. its self-awareness and you are hungry enough to get it. but don't take helping hands for granted. be grateful that ppl helped you because they trusted in you.
this trust is very vulnerable.

5) have a positive mind set.
and just keep going! don't ever play victim mindset. and let ppl pity you. ppl can play pity on you for a few times, but soon they will get sick of you.

finally i managed to blog whatever inside my head.

i need to change myself to suit the current situation. because im controlling my life.